How long do i have to wait until i can safely say i dont have genital herpes? please read:?

Since it has been 2.5 months then you probably do not have genital herpes. There is HSV 1 ( Herpes Simplex Virus Type 1, Oral Herpes) and HSV 2 ( Herpes Simplex Virus Type 2, Genital Herpes). If someone practices oral sex then it is possible to get HSV 1 and/or 2 anywhere. You said that your current girlfriend has tested negative for STDs. Which STDs were tested for? There are over 20. It is possible to spread herpes even if symptoms are not present. Since you are 17, you can go to your local health department and be tested for STDs. Your information is confidential. It is illegal for anyone at the Health Department to contact your parents and tell them what you came in for.